His parents didnt care whether he lived or died and they told me that and made peace with the fact that their son would in fact eventually die from his addiction. You don't realize that there are places to go and you can get leave your relationship even if you have no money. I was left homeless after my mum kicked me out for getting pregnant I left at 18 and they and my siblings still all pretend to be this Christian loving family. Stay or go? He has a paid attorney . Hes familys in Idaho and I offer to pay for his trip there. Everywhere that we went before he went to jail people we had never even met before would come up to us and say that they could see the love radiating off of us. Marriage is floundering badly. The only thing saving me is that I do have a way to make decent money but a lot of apartments dont trust self employed income which is another issue. I was able to help out more financially and I was finally happy w/my career choice. But theyre there, and they will help you break up with a man you no longer love. He manages all of it. Please i am serious. So he helped me move into an apartment 2 minutes from our house. Hold on my friend. Im retired, on disability, hardly any money in the bank and I want to return to NJ. No one knows what its like till they go through it. Ive contacted holiness, Ive tried to leave. I know I need to keep building. When you finally had enough and gathered enough proof of the abuse go see a divorce attorney and explain your situation. I have waited to long to leave my absurd marriage, but I still know that I must as I dont want to go to my death in this horrible and sad state of affairs. Actually started flooding in even 10 years later things are still just popping up in my mind that I cant believe happened. I am not in love with him anymore for years now. Take Care River and best of luck to you! Not only is every day a struggle, but every hour. Ive tried leaving but for some reason Ive never been strong enough to my only support died 2 years ago my mom I dont have any one anymore no friends because Ive been tricked into thinking everyone is bad. Ultimately I figure my actions will speak louder than my words. You'd do it in a second. My income is a only 672 per month and I have to buy food and help pay bills etc since he isnt working right now. He got cancer, I nursed him back to health! I need to get a job and put my three kids in daycare. I also feel that it is crucial to be with people who are caring and kind to one another. I was met with a cliche list of duhs that was written by someone who clearly has ZERO experience with the aforementioned situation. Today I am tired. What are my legal rights in this matter? And if they have to call out a AC repair guy you can ask how to connect the duct work to the attic. and I have health problems that keep me from holding down a job,my girlfriends family like to put me down and talk behind my back and she does not defend me and even talks behind my back to them whenever she is upset about anything,I want out but wont be able to support my kids at the moment without her :( my email is cheepyandbip at gmail.com email me sometime maybe we can both figure it out! I knew he would fail me again and I would be caught up in the same vortex of pain, abandonment, broken promises and emotional disconnection. I am in a similar situation. He didnt even know or realize that I tried to kill myself. In Feb of this year, I moved in with my boyfriend after being together for nine months. I wont be able to eat, let alone be able to get my pain medicine. This was all because he claimed my sister stayed too late (10pm) and the light from my bedroom where my sister and i was hanging out was bothering him. I am wishing you BETTER for the near future. You have a friend my name is Donna. Any hope? Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Domestic Abuse. Its like I think for my scenario its a timing thing and also a part of me doest want to hurt him and another part of me thinks he is never going to change because us my very presence in his life enabling him to continue stuck in addiction. I can work but no one will hire me now that I am pregnant. Thank you God. The truth is a hard pill to swallow . I was left homeless after my parents kicked me out for getting pregnant - now I run three businesses making 900k a year. She treated me like shit; biting remarks when he wasnt around. I do love her.the good times are rare but their great. I actually dont know how to out into words how I feel other than very emotiotionaly drained, hurt and tired. What can I o if my husband kicked me out and I'm homeless? Im 42, been married 24 years, together 26. There is help for you and your babies if you look the right places . There are so many loving and caring people out there. I have no family or friends and am completely on my own. He even prepared a speech for me to say to him as I walk out the door. Thats a laughmy responsibility! I just dont know what to do anymore and I have no one to talk to. I have an income that wouldnt even begin to pay to live on my own . Sending you and everyone in these posts love , Im stuck in this relationship well i cant call it that, everyday im being put down and spoken to like i dont matter i do think that sbe has some sort of problem it could be mental illness or something else but iam mentally drained, i knkw its over and she does as well but she just keeps hanging on and im doing the same because i have no where to go. Its a tough one . The problems resurfaced shortly thereafter. I will admit to being a screw up, but I really dont think I am as bad as he acts like I am. I have a kid who is 11, but its not with him. I am on the opposite side of this. We dont want to hurt our partners, we dont want them to hurt us worse than they already have, and we dont want our loved ones pets, children, family members to get hurt. Hes so manipulative, like one second hes angry saying the worst things to me and Im begging him not to stress me out because I cant lose this baby too but he doesnt care. Partner at Wittenbrink Law Firm. Weve been together for almost 40 years and the last 30 have been spent dealing with her disowning him. You can record him without him knowing or have him sign something stating thats your car just incase he wants to take it back. Are you on any public assistance? I have a safe plsce for someone trusting patient and willing to help asap. Listen, no dead person ever came back to say how good death is. In Australian legislation, this is classed as child abuse because of what it does to a young persons developing brain, emotional wellbeing and the risk to physical safety. I am so hopless and HELPLESS. If the abuse is really bad then you can leave your beloved pet at an animal shelter. never in a million years did I think I would be in this unfortunate predicament. We just dont see it because our eyes are so clouded and the mind is so wrapped around what is going on that its hard to just stop and see everything for what it really is. But start all over if you need because you must survive and you know you will not in the situation you are currently in. Please.before he hurts you further or gives you an illness that will kill you slowly. Im gonna grow old alone. I want out. So sorry to hear what everyone is going throught. My 14 daughter is always so upset and scared this is not fair on the kids I really need to separate them for their safety my Dr knows the struggles Ive been having as I spoke to him before things really escalated on Thursday and Ive also spoken to social services too who are coming out after a report from the police Please please can you help me as Im so worried and just can not live in fear of the next time ? I want to leave so bad but Ive cried wolf before and Im not sure how to stick with my guns on this one not to mention we barely have sex at all anymore and hes said mean things about my body so it makes me think he doesnt want to touch me because he thinks Im ugly now. If you're in a tricky spot, or scared that you may be put in a tough place soon, give our office a call at (757) 425-5200. There is no money saved. Until then, try to take care of yourself. You may just need medication but definitely an evaluation. For over 11 years I did everything to protect my child. My boyfriend and his grandparents intentionally degrade and psychologically abuse me, and laugh about the things they do to me when theyre bragging about it to their friends. Thats how crazy and messed up my family had me thinking I was. Im pretty much bed bound. I feel disconnected and alone too. He watches my every move he has control of my fon I am not allowed any internet or social media. Ive been a stay at home mom, and since Im 59 years old it would be difficult to get a job. Kicking someone out of their home is a violent act. Im ata point where I have no where to go because my family is scared he will ruin their lives for helping me, and since J had no choice but to go back because of the CPS thing no one takes me seriously about leaving. They never take responsibility for anything that happens to them. You could move herehelp me or my mom and i would have a friend again after being friendless for years now. He has tried to and I have tried to get him help but mental care is still a bane to medicine. And 15 years later we still laugh about that day. my best times are when hes away, But when he returns I go into a depression. I thought I knew you. I cannot concentrate. I just cant stay enduring this. Jesus love you. You will be in my prayers tonight. Its hard to even take a breath in this mans house when hes home. Im tired Ive tried so hard. Ive been loyal to this man and catered to his every waking need. You are loved. I didnt really even know them before that. This is how I feel. My income is too high to get support I so desperately need but because if my bills and such I am struggling. Ive tried to talk to his family, friends, preachers but they think Im crazy. I only work 20 hours a week because Im waiting on a decision from social security disability and they said I wont get it if I work over 20 hours and my lawyer told me to try to keep it under 20 hours. The only reason my ex is trying to get full custody of our daughter is because he feels that if he has full custody of her he will never have to pay me child support. I decided to drop him off my phone plan. Yes I am sick of hearing Jesus fixes all, he fixes and has fixed nothing since I was a child. Tell us your story! You may think, Im trapped in this relationship. stay with someone or hotel or a shelter. God bless. (Still clean over a year) I got a good job and was willing to take care of all of her financial responsibilities. Hes a tattoo artist and has always been the primary bread winner of our family. Have you considered going back to school? I was tired so I decided I wanted to find my own place and transfer from my job to Florida. Its possible but scary and a lot of work to find ways to get out of a relationship when you have nowhere to go. But he still dont wanna leave. Finally a year after being back and things getting worse I finally devised a plan. IMO being in a safe and peaceful place is the most important thing . If you would be comfortable exchanging emails, it would be great to compare experiences. I dont need trouble but i stumbled upon this sitting in my car up the street from mothers house because ive been in the mentality i have no where to run. I have tried this. When I think of my prayer now I see the image of Jesus bleeding for us all. this, unfortunately, complicates everything to a whole different degree because I have nothing and nobody without him). 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